Noel Shannon needs help just to keep her son safe. He is six, autistic, and nonverbal. It takes six men to hold him down to give him a medication. There are four locks on every door in the home to keep him from running into traffic. The state of Florida has agreed, at least on paper, that he qualifies for support, twice. Both times, that support never reached them.
Behind every statistic is a human being. This is one family's story, and it is what happens when you put policy ahead of relief. Noel shares her story publicly to help other parents. Her son's name and image are not shown.
What the iBudget waiver is
What Noel is fighting for is called the iBudget Waiver. It is a Medicaid home and community based services waiver run by Florida's Agency for Persons with Disabilities, APD for short. It is not the same thing as regular Medicaid, and it is not Social Security. You can have both of those and never touch this program.
To get on the waiver, three things have to be true at the same time:
- Your child has a qualifying developmental disability that started before age 18. Autism is on the list.
- Your child needs the level of care you would get in an institution, measured with a tool called the QSI, the Questionnaire for Situational Information.
- Your family meets regular Medicaid financial eligibility.
The waiver can pay for personal support workers, respite so a parent can sleep, ABA and other behavioral services, supported living, day training, and transportation. That is arguably everything Noel needs and does not have.
Two evaluations, two denials
Noel's son was first evaluated at age two by a licensed psychologist, over three visits, with questionnaires and observations. He was diagnosed at level 3, the most severe, with language impairment. When the first APD application was denied, the only guidance was to provide an updated evaluation. So she got one, from another licensed psychologist in private practice, paid for in cash.
So it just felt like an insult to know what my life looks like, and what we live day to day, and knowing the challenges that he will have for the rest of his life to be told that does not meet the requirements for autism, it's insulting.
About six months after the new application, the second denial came. This time it came down to a single word in the evaluator's title. She was a licensed psychologist who was also certified as a school psychologist, and the evaluation was read as a school evaluation. It was not referred from a school, not done in a school, and not done by her son's school psychologist.
Why "start over" is the advice
On a conference call, staff from other state agencies agreed that the evaluator appeared to be dual certified. Noel was told she could take it up at appeal. An appeal can take up to nine months to get a hearing date, and there is no way to add new documents to an existing application. So the advice was to get yet another evaluation and file yet another application.
Whatever you submit the first time, you better make sure you have everything, because you can't add anything after the fact.
Noel also has a 15 year old son, and every delay lands on him too.
Eligible is not enrolled
This is the vocabulary the system counts on families not knowing. If you meet all three requirements, you are eligible. You are not enrolled. Those are two different words doing two different jobs, and the gap between them is where families wait. The episode walks through Florida's waitlist categories, a promise from 1963, what institutional care costs compared with care at home, what is known about AI in denials, and a bill that passed the Florida House and died in the Senate.
What to do today
- Keep a full copy of everything you submit, and submit everything the first time. The platform may not let you add documents later.
- Check that your evaluator's credentials are stated clearly on the report, and ask for that in writing before it is submitted.
- Ask in writing whether you are eligible, enrolled, or on a waitlist, and which category.
- Ask how long an appeal takes to reach a hearing before you choose between appealing and reapplying.
Tell me in the YouTube comments: what state are you in, and how long has your family been waiting?
Next step
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Book a family care mapping call Agency leaders: book an agency callAshleigh Dominguez, MS, BCBA, is licensed in North Carolina, Georgia, and Iowa. This article is general education based on the episode. It is not clinical, legal, or treatment advice for your child or your state. Corrections and sources are listed in the YouTube description.